“It has taken me years to get it down,” Davies warns.
The book offers no “vanilla fever” chapter – a curious omission, because white people also do the darndest things.
They can set up whatever structure they want, even if it is unreasonable.
Your boyfriend sounds like a nice guy, and you should have a relationship with him if you want to.
White people, for example, will follow you around IKEA exclaiming: “You look just like Michelle Obama! ” A sister-in-law of mine once told me: “You are so lucky you’re black – black people never get rosacea. ” That goes double for Davies, whose biggest skin problem is this: She seems unaware that hers has a color. Interracial marriage is waking up on a Saturday morning, going to a church yard sale in the small town where you live, and having your heart cracked when a very sweet lady says, “Now how did you find out about a yard sale all the way out here?