Of course, fear is only a natural instinct that is still burdening humanity. Moving forward, dating and marriage might be different for post-OP clients but that does not mean it is easier.While a member of the transgender community that is post-OP can have some advantages, they are far still from living a “privileged” life.As a wedding officiant in Oklahoma, Tinsley Keefe is constantly reminding her wedding clients – transgender or not – that love is truly all you need.
How crazy is it to think when you’re with someone and you both climax, and have that feeling of LIFE, ultimately, in that moment, you just physically created life with that person. Before my surgery, on average, I had to spend 20 minutes every morning cutting out strips of duct tape, wrapping my penis in toilet paper, taking that tape, sticking it from my shaft, pulling it all the way up into my ass and repeat. Yes, it’s nice to walk out my door and be identified as a woman by the public eye, but I had to see that for myself before they could.
A typical day for me might consist of shaving not only my face but entire body.
If it starts to feel like a chore, you’re doing it wrong. I was never into it; it always felt awkward and forced, and after I would finish, the biggest wave of guilt and shame would crash over me. The way my body aligns with my mind and sends my body into complete shock for a few seconds makes me feel like my spirit literally beams out of my body. Why can’t you compare that feeling to anything else in existence? Now when I wake up, after I peak under the covers to confirm that my vagina is still, well, there, I brew coffee, and prance around in nothing but nothing. When I walk to the store I sometimes put underwear on underneath my dress and sometimes I don’t. They think we’re full time drag queens, having a blast.
Why do they feel so good, and why do they remind us that we’re alive? First of all, let me assure you that we trans women are not transitioning for anyone but ourselves.
Transitioning can be draining physically and emotionally.