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All of what I teach is around the development of good, healthy relationship mindsets.
And the healthiest mindset you can have for a marriage is knowing that we all have flaws and no one is perfect – especially your partner. Throwing around labels such as BPD isn’t helping your situation.
They’re going to say a lot of things, they’re going to rage, they irrational.
So knowing this, instead of trying to stop these things from happening, you just focus on how respond to it. When you fail to control your emotions and instead be a reactionary person, it becomes very easy for you to be emotionally destroyed by certain behavior such as: behavior men show in relationships is when they become weak and passive.
Either they lack the correct communication skills, they’re reactive and emotional, they don’t actually listen to what their partner says, they say the wrong things, etc.